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Barbara (Crapser) Lindquist, 73, of Wolcott, loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully in the comfort of her home on Thursday, October 3, 2024, following a four-year courageous battle with cancer.
Barbara was born on February 18, 1951 in Southington, CT, daughter to the late Ernest and Rachel (Olsen) Crapser. Growing up in Bristol, she attended local schools and graduated from Bristol Eastern High School. Barbara shared a love story that began in a moment of chance, as she met the love of her life, Randall, while he was at work. From that serendipitous encounter blossomed a deep, enduring love that would shape their lives together. Their bond endured even through the challenges of distance, as Randy served in the U.S. Army, with Barbara faithfully staying connected through letters. In 1971, they sealed their commitment in marriage and embarked on the journey of building a family, filled with joy, love, and cherished memories.
During her children's formative years, Barbara dedicated herself to nurturing her family as a loving stay-at-home mom. In addition to her maternal role, she also found joy in selling Tupperware products, bringing both fun and functionality to households in her community. As her children grew older, Barbara found fulfillment in serving the community through her work within the Wolcott Public Schools District. From her days as a caring lunch lady at Frisbie Elementary School to her role as a beloved paraeducator at Tyrell Middle School, Barbara touched the lives of countless students with her warmth, compassion, and dedication. Her unwavering passion for the students in the Wolcott School district manifested through her involvement in various extracurricular activities, notably as the former cheerleading coach for Wolcott Pop Warner and Wolcott High School. Barbara's commitment to inspiring and supporting the youth was truly commendable and left an enduring impact on all those she encountered.
Barbara was a socialite known for her vivacious personality and impeccable style. She had a special way of brightening up any room she entered with her love for engaging conversations and eye-catching fashion choices, always accentuated by her signature lipstick.
Her kind and caring nature touched the hearts of all who knew her, and her presence will be deeply missed by her family, who were the center of her world. Although she may no longer be with us, the love and memories she shared will live on in our hearts for years to come.
Barbara leaves behind her loving husband of 53 years, Randall Lindquist, who stood by her side with unwavering support and devotion. Together, they created a lifetime of cherished memories and shared experiences. In addition, she leaves behind her daughters, Kelly Humel and her partner, Paul Loubier, and Jennifer Spino and her husband, Paul; her cherished grandchildren, Tyler Humel, Dayton Spino, Ashlynne Spino, Michaela Spino, and Emma Spino; her one and only great-grandson, Carter Humel; her brother, Robert Crapser and his wife, Tammy; and her beloved 17-year-old Border Collie, Cricket. Barbara was predeceased by her sister, Gail Bishop.
Family and friends are welcome to gather on Thursday, October 10, 2024 from 5 to 7 PM at Plainville Funeral Home, 81 Broad Street, Plainville. A service in celebration of Barbara’s life will begin on Friday, October 11, 2024 at 10 AM at Plainville Funeral Home, with words of remembrance shared by life celebrant, Jesse Gnazzo. Burial will follow at Saint Joseph Cemetery, Plainville. Donations in memory of Barbara may be made to The UConn Foundation, Inc., Attn: Data Services, 2390 Alumni Dr., Unit 3206, Storrs, CT 06269-3206 or by going to www.foundation.uconn.edu. For more information or to leave online expressions of sympathy, please visit www.PlainvilleFuneralHome.com.
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The UConn Foundation, Inc., Attn: Data Services
2390 Alumni Dr., Unit 3206, Storrs CT 06269-3206
Web: http://www.foundation.uconn.edu